Kindergarten Algebra


I was pretty upset when I was helping CJ with his math homework this afternoon because he basically had to solve a math problem along the lines of 7 – 2 – x = 3. Really? For a five year old?! He wasn’t even taught three number addition or subtraction yet! I could understand if the mathematics curriculum wanted to challenge the students with something like 7 – 2 – 2 = x. Sure, that’s certainly plausible. But presenting something as complex and completely new and foreign as such to a kindergartner is insane no matter how common core-ish it needs to be. Even I had a difficult time having CJ illustrate a diagram to help him understand it better. I was livid and I had to keep telling CJ that it wasn’t him, but the problem that was confusing. I wrote a letter to the teacher and attached it to his homework. This is just ridiculous.

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Portrait of Grace

Every week my church publishes a Portrait of Grace in which one of our members shares a short story about how God has been working in their lives, and yesterday an interview of CJ was published.

Although I was there for the interview, I still teared up a bit as I read his responses when it was published. I fail as a parent in infinite ways, yet purely by God’s grace CJ is slowly learning and believing in Jesus and hopefully will one day be given the faith to love Jesus as his Lord and savior.

Portrait of Grace

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Jiu-Jitsu Fight Club


I’m on the wrong side of my 30’s, so it was about time that I take up some martial arts self-defense training. One of my few life regrets is not being immersed in martial arts training when I was young because it would have given my self-esteem a huge boost. Well, better late than never.

So why jiu-jitsu? It’s the most practical in a street fight and is quite popular these days in the UFC. Plus I loved the 2011 film Warrior and UFC fighter Conor McGregor is addictive to follow in his quest to be the best UFC fighter, although he’s more of a striker than mat guy.


There was some interest from church folks and my basement is sufficient enough to host a small group for rolling, so why not? I cleared the basement, we bought a few gymnastic mats, a legitimate Gracie Combative course, two experienced teachers, and training began last week.


We’re literally rolling and mounting on top of one another while learning how to maneuver and close our opponent’s range to minimize their striking capabilities and pin them into submission.


We got some great teachers who really know what they’re doing.


And of course, I was the first one in our group last night to get injured with an accidental strike to my left eye which was really excruciating.

I’m okay with slight numbness. Not much of a shiner. Yes mom, I will be careful.

After three classes I can do all of the above. And hopefully with more practice I’ll be able to do these maneuvers with speed and precision.

And I can also do the americana for a submission move. Of course it’ll get more complex and require more dedication as I work my way up to a blue belt, but perhaps, maybe, I’ll be able to go for a real exam and really earn that blue belt. Ha! #sweeptheleg

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T-Shirt Snow Tubing

Last week we took a short road trip to the Please Touch Museum near Philadelphia, and then snow tubing in the Poconos. I foolishly didn’t check my GPS’ settings which led us an extra hour through the Holland Tunnel and Trenton, New Jersey because it was avoiding paying tolls and bridges. Ugh!!!

Nonetheless, it was worth it because a friend gave us free tickets for the museum. But on the other hand it’s becoming quite evident that CJ is growing out of his little boy stage as he didn’t have much fun there. He was really looking forward to the rocket launch exhibit, but unfortunately it was under renovation. EJ had a blast of course.

After eating some Texas Roadhouse we took advantage of our hotel’s pool which both kids really enjoyed.

I’m not sure why, but CJ wrote me a name tag before going to bed.

So we booked our hotel before realizing that our snow tubing day was going to reach the high 60’s.

I suppose it wasn’t that bad at Camelback because the nice weather deterred others from snow tubing which prevented some long waits like we experienced two years ago.

It got really hot. The real feel in the sun was 73 degrees.

For the most part the kids had fun. The snow tubing lanes were good to go, but some were slower than others because of the melting ice.

EJ didn’t like all the bumps at first, so we cushioned her seat with the ergo and she was good to go from there.

CJ just hates being last.

We might try skiing for the kids next year, lol!

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Daddy…What Happens Next?


We’ve been weary of bringing our kids to watch a movie in a theater mostly because of the insane cost of tickets and food. Well, this week CJ and I had the week off from school and I was free on Tuesday which is when the College Point Multiplex theater has discounted $8.75 tickets all day, so I suppose it wasn’t going to get any better than that. I also wanted to watch a movie with him that I was semi-interested in and The Lego Batman Movie was good enough for the both of us.


CJ couldn’t wait to get to the theater and eat popcorn because I suppose that’s what’s expected of a moviegoer in CJ’s eyes. And although I’m sure he didn’t get 80% of the jokes, CJ definitely had a grand time. The coolest thing was that he kept making so much noise. He’d say something was cool, or ask me what was going to happen next, or he would slurp his icee really loudly. He was really into the whole experience. Well, next up are Grandpa and Grandma because they promised they would watch Trolls with him.

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The Naked Chicken Chalupa


As I’ve grown older I’ve come to the realization that I love breaded chicken sandwiches just as much as I love hamburgers, or maybe, maybe even moreso. So when I recently saw a commercial for this badboy, I knew I just had to try it out.


My first impression was that it’s smaller than I imaged it to be, so in a few bites it goes quick. But it’s good. Not great, not bad, but good. It did have a nice kick to it. Yes, I wasn’t too blown away, I suppose it was just ok. This makes me think that I should have tried harder to get a crack at KFC’s double-breasted chicken sandwich. Oh well…back to my local breaded chicken sandwich on a hero at work.

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Mommy Finger Where Are You?

So cute!

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The Hip Hopper

This makes me smile.

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Grillin’ Like A Villain

The weather yesterday on Sunday was amazing, 60’s in February, #globalwarmingisreal. So I broke out all of the sports equipment and the kids kicked it around in the backyard.

Then I decided to break out my new grill and fire it up for the first time with some skirt steak. It’s been hibernating all winter long unused in the garage and this was the opportune time.

And of course it turned out even better than frying it. I can’t wait to grill more throughout the year.

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Haok VS Robot


CJ made this for me at school the other day. It’s supposed to be Hulk Vs Robot, not Haok, but close enough. He knows I love robots, but I still can’t fathom why he likes the Hulk so much. Unappealing to me, I guess it must be the Hulk’s immense strength, helping CJ compensate for his perpetual youth for his age.

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